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Why You Need A Will Right Now: Yes, Even You

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All the bizarre state regulations that trigger if you die without a will. We cover why a will is important for even young couples with children and single professionals, among others. We also cover a few recommendations on how to get started and how to get a will completed in half an hour.

 

Wills aren’t exactly the sexiest topic of conversation. I get it. Compared to skydiving, the latest football game, and that weird cat video your friend sent you, the discussion of your potential untimely demise and a dense legal document accompanying it isn’t exactly scintillating. However, an hour of your time now can save your loved ones a ton of heartache (and even thousands or hundreds of thousands of dollars) down the road.

 

I’ve had a will since I was 26, and I highly recommend you consider one, too.

 

Will Basics

 

At its heart, a will is actually a very simple document. You simply outline how you wish your assets to be distributed upon your death. Many folks think creating a will is costly and time consuming, but that doesn’t have to be true. You can create a will with a legal template maker, and one of the strongest ways to ensure the will will stand up to any challenges is to have witnesses to your signing of the will; neither of these things has to cost much at all. I created my will with Quicken’s WillMaker product. It cost something like $20-25, and I can use it to make wills for as many people as I like, and change it as many times as I like.

 

If you don’t have a will when you pass, you will have died “intestate”. That means your estate will be divided based on your state’s intestate succession laws, and you might be surprised by how they differ from your wishes.

 

Here are a few common issues that arise, which a will can solve. We will go roughly in order of least to most problematic.

 

Parents vs. Siblings:

 

We’ll start with the young whippersnappers. Maybe you graduated from college just a few years ago. You’re single with no children, and you’re living the young professional life in a big city. If you pass, who do you want your assets to go to? In most states, 100% of your assets go to your parents. If no parents survive you, then it is divided amongst your siblings. If you are estranged from your parents, you probably want to make different arrangements. If you have a toxic brother, perhaps you don’t want him inheriting your hard-earned cash. Maybe it’s the couple next door who treated you like their own that you want to reap the rewards of your labor. You will have to override your state’s intestate laws with explicit instructions, in the form of a will.

 

Providing for Pets

 

If you have a fuzzy family member, odds are you care about what happens to them when you pass. A will allows you not only to name a line of folks who can assume care for your pet, but also enables you to apportion a certain amount of your estate to go towards the care of that animal.

 

Spousal Inheritance – Or Accidentally Not?

 

Many people mistakenly think that if they die, 100% of their assets will go to their spouse. That is not necessarily the case. For example, if you have kids, most states will actually divide your estate between your spouse and your kids. Only 16 states have adopted some sort of rule which allows your spouse to inherit 100% if you have no kids outside of marriage with this spouse. In other states, the split may be ⅓ of your assets to the spouse and the rest divided among your kids, or ½ to your spouse and the rest divided among your kids. Accounts like a brokerage account which are joint and have rights of survivorship will pass directly to the surviving account owner, but anything considered your estate alone are up for grabs.

 

This may not seem like a big issue, but it can be. Imagine an eight-year old inheriting several hundred thousand dollars that your spouse needs to live off in retirement. Remember, when the kid is of legal age, they will walk away with that money. And in the meanwhile, your spouse has to deal with the hassle of separate accounting for those assets that don’t actually belong to them.

 

I have heard of cases where the division required by intestate laws required the family home to be sold in order to successfully apportion assets, but I’m not a lawyer and haven’t confirmed. How disruptive. How brutal.

 

If you have kids from a previous marriage, don’t forget that they may also count in the division of assets. So again, the money you thought your spouse would live off in retirement? He or she may be hundreds of thousands poorer than you think once the shares of all your children from different marriages get their share.

 

Custody of Your Children

 

If you have children, I think there’s no excuse for you not to have a will. In a will, you can outline who you would like to give custody of your children. Perhaps you’ve discussed with your sister that you’d like her to take on the duties, and she’s agreed. That’s that, you think.

 

Not quite.

 

Surviving Family Disagrees

Perhaps your parents were unaware of this ‘discussion’ between you and your sibling, and feel they would be better equipped to take on their precious grandchildren. Or maybe they verbally agreed when you told them years ago but have a change of heart during the emotional time after your death. If they or anyone else challenge your sister’s claim, they’re in for a long, drawn out custody battle in which your children suffer.

 

Worse, imagine the toxic in-laws whom you and your spouse have cut out of your life come knocking. They want custody of your kids (and maybe all the financial assets that come along with the duty). Are you going to trust the well-being and financial lives of your children to the outcome of a he said-she said argument between family members? Why leave such an important thing to chance when it could so easily be nailed down?

 

Family Member Changes His/Her Mind

Back to your sister. Maybe when you asked her at your child’s birth, it made all the sense in the world. Now, 10 years later she’s going through a divorce, is jobless, has five kids of her own – one of whom has significant medical issues that require her time and attention – or has had other life circumstances change which make it difficult to do right by your kids? Is there a clear line of succession if one candidate refuses?

 

In a will, you can lay down this order in concrete terms.

 

Financial Well-Being Of Your Children

 

Did you know you can appoint different people to be your child’s physical guardian and financial guardian? Perhaps your brother is fantastic at raising kids and has children of his own to raise alongside your little tike, but he’s terrible with money. You could make him the physical guardian of your child and then appoint your sister-in-law, the sharpshooter banker living the jetsetting life, as the financial guardian managing your child’s assets and apportioning the withdrawals every year to pay for your child’s care.

 

A will allows you to make this division clear, as well as provide clear order of succession if one candidate refuses the job or becomes unable to continue in the role.

 

Unmarried Partners (Long-Term Couples, Engaged Partners, etc):

 

Intestate laws are notoriously brutal on couples who are not legally married. If you have a long-term partner or even a fiance, you are doing them a huge disservice by leaving things up to chance. If you are not legally married at the time of your death, often they will be left with absolutely nothing. Some combination of your blood relations – children, parents, and sibling – will inherit everything you own.

 

Examples of Default Inheritance Rules

 

We covered a few of the more common ways in which inheritance plans go awry without a will, but there are plenty of other freak scenarios which could occur. One eye-opener is simply to examine what the intestate laws of your state are so you can see for yourself whether you would agree in the various circumstances..

 

Here are just a few example of intestate succession laws in different states. Charts are provided by Nolo. You can search for “Nolo Intestate Succession (Your State)” if you’d like to get a quick read of what things look like in your state.

 

New Jersey

If you die with:Here’s what happens:
  • children but no spouse
  • children inherit everything
  • spouse but no descendants or parents
  • spouse inherits everything
  • spouse and descendants from you and that spouse, and the spouse has no other descendants
  • spouse inherits everything
  • spouse and descendants from you and that spouse, and the spouse has descendants from another relationship
  • spouse inherits the first 25% of your intestate property (but not less than $50,000 or more than $200,000), plus 1/2 of the balance
  • your descendants inherit everything else
  • spouse and descendants from you and someone other than that spouse
  • spouse inherits the first 25% of your intestate property (but not less than $50,000 or more than $200,000), plus 1/2 of the balance
  • descendants inherit everything else
  • spouse and parents
  • spouse inherits the first 25% of your intestate property (but not less than $50,000 or more than $200,000), plus 3/4 of the balance
  • parents inherit remaining intestate property
  • parents but no spouse or descendants
  • parents inherit everything
  • siblings but no spouse, descendants, or parents
  • siblings inherit everything

 

Texas

If you die with:Here’s what happens:
  • children but no spouse, parents, or siblings
  • children inherit everything
  • spouse but no children, parents, or siblings
  • spouse inherits everything
  • parents but no children, spouse, or siblings
  • parents inherit everything
  • siblings but no children, spouse, or parents
  • siblings inherit everything
  • a spouse and children who are also the children of your spouse
  • spouse inherits all of your community property, plus 1/3 of your separate personal property and the right to use your real estate for life
  • children inherit everything else
  • a spouse and children who are not the children of your spouse
  • spouse inherits 1/3 of your separate personal property and the right to use your real estate for life
  • children inherit everything else, including your 1/2 interest in the community property
  • a spouse and parents
  • spouse inherits all of your community property, all of your separate personal property, and 1/2 of your separate real estate
  • parents inherit everything else
  • a spouse and siblings, but no parents
  • spouse inherits all of your community property, all of your separate personal property, and 1/2 of your separate real estate
  • siblings inherit everything else

 

Of course, even if you agree with the intestate rules in your state, there’s no guarantee you’ll still be there when you pass. What if you took a job in a new state? Are you going to remember to check the laws when you move, and keep up with any changes throughout the years? Why not spend a half hour or hour building your own will and avoiding all this constant shifting and uncertainty?

 

Options for Writing Your Will

 

You can, of course, reach out to a lawyer to help you draft your will. Fortunately, however, wills are a common item and there are several more inexpensive options you can pursue.

 

  • Statutory Forms: Several states actually offer official forms you can fill out
  • Book: You can use a book which will walk you through the process of creating a will
  • Will Software/Online Service: You can use a software program like Quicken Willmaker or an online service like Legalzoom to build your will. This is the method I used. As I mentioned above, I created my wills with Quicken Willmaker, which you can purchase a copy of for about $20-25. It has allowed me to build wills for myself and my husband as well as update those wills as things in my life change (for example, having a kid).

 

Key Tip: Make sure you have two witnesses for the signing or acknowledgment of your will. Wills which have no witnesses have a difficult time standing up in court if challenged by a family member. You also have the option of having the will notarized (witnessed by a licensed notary public) if you’d like added security. Notary publics are pretty easy to find – UPS offers notarization services at thousands of their locations, as an example.

 

How Long Does The Process Take?

I personally found the selection process to take the most time (about half an hour). The actually will-making process probably took me 10-15 minutes, plus another 15-20 minutes reading it over and looking up different terms because I’m anal and like to understand everything front to back. Depending on how much research you like to do, the whole process could take you anywhere from 15 minutes to about an hour from the time you leave this article to the time you have a completed will in your hands.

 

Conclusion

 

Even if you are young and healthy, a will is almost certainly a worthwhile project for you. With the investment of perhaps a half hour of your time, you can secure the future of your loved ones.

 

Do you have a will? Any tips on what to pay attention to or things you wish you’d known?

 

 

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  1. Landon says

    November 30, 2017 at 2:31 pm

    Something that also works well for real estate are quit claim deeds.

    Preparing a quit claim deed before your death with all the notarized signatures can make for an easy transfer of real estate upon your death. All you need to do is record the documents at the County Recorder.

    This won’t work for everyone, especially if you don’t trust your heirs as much as you’d like to (you can always create another opposing quit claim deed to offset the premature seizure of your assets). But one of the benefits of the quit claim deed is that it would remove the real estate from the estate and drastically reduce interference from probate courts, lawyers, etc. There is also no dispute among multiple heirs what your wishes may be, as they would be identified in the deed.

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    • JP Livingston says

      November 30, 2017 at 9:22 pm

      Thanks Landon. Avoiding probate is a pretty strong incentive.

      Reply
  2. Steveark says

    November 30, 2017 at 4:07 pm

    Although I agree people should have wills, in my family’s case when mom and then a few years later when my dad died all the assets passed first to my dad and then 50% each to me and my brother. This was all controlled by the designation of beneficiaries on each of my dad’s accounts. I was the executor of his pretty sizable estate and never had to look at his will, although of course I did. What a will says about beneficiaries is completely trumped by the way the brokerage account is assigned. If all the assets have designated beneficiaries, including any life insuance, then there is no probate, no taxes and no fees in my state. Of course there were no expensive possessions, no house, no minor children so it was much easier than some people’s more complicated situations.

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    • JP Livingston says

      November 30, 2017 at 9:20 pm

      Hey Steveark. You are correct – beneficiaries on accounts will trump the will in the event the two diverge. Assets for which a beneficiary is directly listed also do not have to pass through probate as you said, meaning they get into the hands of your loved ones sooner. However, I like the idea of having both. In the event one of you starts a new job and never got around to filling out that beneficiary slot, or you listed a beneficiary who passed but don’t have an alternate…the potential scenarios in which the beneficiary listing fails and a will would be helpful are numerous. There are also assets for which there is no clear ‘beneficiary box’. Real estate would be on example. Appreciate you weighing in with a real life example.

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  3. Floren says

    November 30, 2017 at 4:56 pm

    Since we are on the subject, your other readers may want to check out the website gyst.com (get your sh%t together). It guides you through the process of last wills, living wills, emergency funds, and other super fun stuff that I swear one day I’ll put together…

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    • JP Livingston says

      November 30, 2017 at 9:14 pm

      Thanks. I already like the name.

      Reply
  4. birdsofaFIRE says

    November 30, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    Hey JP!

    I wasn’t sure where to post this, but I wanted to say thank you for encouraging me to start my own blog. I used to work in finance as well, currently live in NYC, and as someone in her young 20s, I feel like I can relate to you. I never thought I could really retire until I saw similar people to myself wanting to retire and am glad you’re here to be an example to young women out there, that it’s possible. You never see FI female bloggers! Just like on the trading floor haha. But unlike the 40 year old MDs out there, I hope to be chilling from my house long before I reach that age. It helps that the SO is on board with FI as well!

    Reply
    • JP Livingston says

      November 30, 2017 at 9:13 pm

      I’m so glad the blog has been helpful. I sometimes wonder about those 40-year-old MDs myself; do they love the work or did their lifestyles grow to the point that have to keep working despite those huge salaries just to support them? Will be rooting for you.

      Reply
  5. Dr. Side Hustle says

    December 1, 2017 at 8:20 am

    Hi JP! I’m one of those 40 year-old (female) doctors myself. I just finished all my post-medical school training 3 years ago: 6 years of undergraduate (had to pay for it myself with some scholarships, so had to work full-time to afford courses), 4 years of medical school, 3 years internal medicine residency, 1 year hepatology fellowship, 3 years gastroenterology fellowship, all while making a beginning teachers salary and I even worked a second job in conjunction during my training on my weekends for 5 years, when not on-call in fellowship just to make rent, carried my medical school loan throughout this time only able to afford minimum payments of close to 1K monthly, and only after finishing training was I able to pay back the entire loan, but I did this in first 2.5 years of my attending salary. I have stayed renting well below my current means, same car which is payed off and 8- years old, no fancy new anything’s, so lifestyle hasn’t grown much, and I did this in order to pay off that loan and start saving/investing. So, that’s why we doctors end up “working so long”, cause we don’t start work until many, many years after college graduates do often. Currently, after just paying off my student loan, I am now maximizing my savings, at a rate of 70-75% currently. I do love being a doctor, but the financial sacrifices are only one aspect of the many sacrifices we endure with this path.

    With all of this said, I found your blog a couple months ago and it rocks! You are one of a handful of bloggers who inspired me to start my new adventure in blogging. I am more of a mini-hybrid like some of the other doctor bloggers who speak a little about finance from a doctor perspective. Just got it up and running a couple weeks ago, used your advice to get started with Blue Host, but still working out so many technical issues, so lots of work to go. I even mention your blog on one of the blogs, as even though I am much “older”, I was inspired by your clear motivation to reach FIRE and how you accomplished this, even if I am late to the game, it is still a goal. For doctors, retiring at 50 is FIRE for most. Also, I think your advice is not only top notch due to your background in finance, but you have a gift for writing as well. Thank you for your blog and I just wanted to share with you some reasons some of us doctors are where we are. Not to say your alternative theories may not be assumed to apply to some.

    Keep up the blog! I’ll keep following and hope you’ll check out mine as well sometime. BTW, congratulations on your new home and upcoming newest family member! 🙂

    Reply
    • JP Livingston says

      December 1, 2017 at 4:03 pm

      Hey Dr. SH – paying back your loans in 2.5 years is impressive! I understand your point about the long delay for doctors to really hit their earning potential and am glad you’re at the sweet spot of enjoying your work but also drawing a very high salary. Also excited to hear you’ve started a blog! It’s great to have additional voices from different walks sharing their best tips. I think it’s the best tool we each have to improve our own financial systems. Happy holidays.

      Reply
  6. Michael CPO, From the Far Side of the Planet says

    December 1, 2017 at 8:23 am

    I think it is a good idea to have Will when you are an international expat overseas. I have seen in a number of cases where the unexpected surprises a couple and happens. Of course things happen … usually with car accidents or the like and or heart issues or the like… we had a whole family perish in car accident while holidaying in the Middle East …….. CPO, From the Far Side of the Planet

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  7. BH says

    December 2, 2017 at 9:35 am

    Hi JP, my wife and I are currently planning some international travel, and have been researching either doing a DIY Will w/Quicken, LegalZoom, or Rocket Lawyer (seems to be the top 3 products) or just sitting down and paying an estate planning lawyer. From what I have learned, the DIY products are great if your estate is simple and straight forward. If not, then you should hire a lawyer. As you mention in your post, many states laws are different and unique. My advice is that If you want ‘peace of mind’ and want to be 100% sure the document/s will hold up in court, hire a lawyer. Just curious, have you had an estate lawyer review the Will and legal documents you created ? Another possible alternative, is to buy one of the DIY products, create your documents as complete as possible, then hire a lawyer to review them. Since you’ve done most of the work, maybe hiring a lawyer to review will give you ‘peace of mind’ and save you some money.

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  8. Laurie says

    December 7, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    JP, great article as always! I’m in the process of deciding between a will or a Living Trust to leave a house and some investment to a sibling. I’m in my early 30s, single, and has a stable job. Do you have any advice on the issue of Will vs. Living Trust? Thanks a lot! Happy holidays to you and yor growing family. =)

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  9. Russell says

    February 23, 2018 at 6:14 pm

    I could only find Quicken Willmaker for $60+ online, but I found that my local library has several copies of the software!

    Reply
    • JP Livingston says

      February 25, 2018 at 6:30 pm

      Even better. I’m very happy with the product – free makes it a fantastic deal. :o)

      Reply

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